Who Says Younger is Sexier? By  Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW’s Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Just about everyone, that’s who!  Gazillions of messages every day try to convince us that young—and only young—is sexy.  Sure, the media throws us a politically correct nod, showing attractive seniors supposedly shining our way through our golden years, even if a bit battered and bent. But those token gestures can hardly compete with all the TV, movies, radio, popular music, magazines, and even wrappers on gum and panty hose—all full of images of young, sexy people whom we are supposed... Read More

Can You Hear Me Now? By  Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW’s Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Ladies, if you sometimes think that your man seems deaf, dumb, and blind, that may actually be partially true. At least the deaf part is pretty common. Many men as they age tend to lose some of their hearing at the higher range where a woman’s voice may mostly reside.  If your guy seems to be missing some of what you’ve been saying lately, there’s a good chance he might benefit from a hearing test. Partial hearing loss is far more common than most people realize.  Countless arguments and even... Read More

What\’s Your Sex Style? By  Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW’s Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Individuals  and  couples  often develop  their  own  sex  styles  that partially  reflect  their  personalities and relationships. Every sex style is good if you both enjoy it and it leads to satisfying sex. Experimenting with another style once in a while can be exciting, too. Like food, variety really does add spice to life. Occasionally, a rigid sex style can block you from experiencing other kinds of lovemaking. Remember,  no  individual  or  couple  is  ever  all ... Read More

Building Your Communication Toolbox By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW’s Boomer Women\’s Sexuality Expert Honest and effective communication takes tools, skills, and practice. Here are some ways to let the things you say nurture and grow your relationship. Use  “I”  statements.  Take ownership of your feelings and thoughts.  State your personal beliefs and feelings clearly and plainly. For example, instead of “You are so loud and annoying. Why do you keep bothering me?” you can say “I felt scared when you slammed the door. I would really like it if you could please be gentler... Read More

The Great Joy Ride By Dr. Dorree Lynn NABBW’s Boomer Women Sexuality Expert Psssst. Wanna know a secret? Grownups, even some very grownup grownups, are playing . . . with sex toys! In fact, for couples and singles alike, there is a revolution occurring for people over 50. Adult sex toys, pornography, erotic literature, game playing, and other pleasure products and practices have become much more mainstream than ever before. This is good news for those in good health because sex toys can add fun and excitement to adult life. And it’s even better news for those in ill health because there... Read More