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Happiness and the American Dream

Happiness and the American Dream 

By Bonnie Michaels
For the NABBW    

Bonnie Michaels“Will I Ever Be Happy Again,” was  a topic discussed at a boomer workshop and many attendees had a variety of losses that often interfere with happiness—partners, savings, jobs, health, as well as issues with children and grandchildren.  In this day and age of great change and transition, it is an important question and one not easily answered.

The poignant question can’t be answered until happiness is defined.  In many instances, happiness is a personal issue. Yet, research shows there are some criteria to consider.

Studies suggest that happiness comes from many things other than material possessions so the first step is to rework your American Dream to fit the new reality of our times.

If your American Dream has set up expectations for the way you are supposed to live your life, it is time to throw those expectations out and start with a clean slate.

If you had hoped to retire  and buy a home in sunny Florida but your savings were downsized, it is an opportunity to look at other lifestyles and ways of living out your life in a meaningful way.  One woman wrote me and said, For me waking up in the quiet and star filled night sky with brilliant sunrises over the eastern ridge…that revs up my happy, even if I\’m living on shoestring budget.”

If you are out of work, a time out is sometimes a blessing in order to reevaluate what is important and uncover your real happiness by creating a new American Dream. That dream may not look like anyone else’s but it can bring you happiness.book-happyapp-250w

The upside of your present situation, whatever that may be, is that you can create new rules for yourself that will allow you to harness the power of change. Think of it like your computer, “perform a systems upgrade,” by examining and reevaluating your hopes, retirement plans, and expectations in order to adapt to new circumstances.

For me waking up in the quiet and star filled night sky with brilliant sunrises over the eastern ridge…that revs up my happy, even if I\’m living on shoestring budget.”

Your strategy for survival and happiness depends on your ability to adapt.  Make a list of new rules that you will incorporate into your life as you rebuild and re-envision.

Strategies Summary:

  • Define happiness for yourself
  • Reevaluate your American Dream
  • Take time out to dream and rework your American Dream
  • Perform a systems upgrade—new rules for new times
  • Adapt, adapt, adapt

Bonnie Michaels is an expert in work-life balance, transitions and happiness. She provides solutions for individuals and businesses around the globe through her consulting, workshops, speeches, media appearances and writing. She has co-authored Solving the Work/Family Puzzle, A Journey of Work-Life Renewal:  The Power to Recharge & Rekindle Passion in Your Life, Upside:  How to Zig When Life Zags, and the new e-Book The Happy App:  A Process for Boomer  Bliss.

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