August Boomer Women\’s World
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			Boomer Women's World Newsletter August 2006
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Dear Dotsie,
NABBW has members from 40 states – plus Canada, New Zealand and England!
Everyone has been placed in your life to teach you something. Figure out what it is and keep learning from them.
			I continue to be amazed at the gifts and talents of our NABBW members.
			In an effort to allow you to get to know one another better, I am
			trying my best to feature more members, review more books and products,
			and introduce you to the cream of the crop from our generation of
			women. Thanks to all of you who show interest in the association, use
			your benefits, and work hard sharing yourselves with me. It is my
			pleasure to do all that I can to promote you in this newsletter and on
			our sites. I hope you use this newsletter to network and learn as much
			as you can about what baby boomer women are doing at midlife.
			For those of you in the Maryland area, I will be the Keynote Speaker
			talking about Girlfriends and God at a fun event scheduled for
			September 9th and 10th. 
You’re NEVER too old for a PJ PARTY!
			Come to a girlfriend's SERENDIPITOUS SOULFUL SLUMBER PARTY
			Sat. Sept. 9th thru Sun. Sept. 10th
			$159 per person ($50 deposit holds your pillow space)
			O’Dwyer Retreat House, Sparks
			A day & night to empower yourself with relaxation, rejuvenation, inspiration, reflection
			~ shopping ~ speakers ~ goody bags ~ massages ~ slipper parade ~ Mass ~ chocolate!
Please contact me at dots@boomerwomenspeak.com if you are interested in attending.
			Boomer Women’s World is adding advertising opportunities to our
			newsletter. Please contact us if you are interested in seeing your ad
			in this newsletter. We have also added a Boomer Review section where we
			will continue to review books, products and services for the NABBW
			members. 
			I hope you will grab a cold drink, sit back, and enjoy reading this
			issue that contains all topics of interest to baby boomer women. 
			Onward with grace,
			Dotsie
			
			dots@nabbw.com
			1-877-bboomer
			INTRODUCING OUR NEW FITNESS ASSOCIATE – MARY PEARSALL!
			Personal Best Fitness and Wellness Coaching
			www.mypersonalbest.net
			Mary@mypersonalbest.net 
			I am happy to share that one of our members jumped in with both feet
			and she happens to be a fitness expert. Mary showed great interest in
			educating us about midlife fitness so I chose to make her an associate.
			Please visit her site and look for her first article in Boomer Women’s
			World next month.
			Coaching Philosophy: Mary’s philosophy and mission is to support,
			educate, and motivate her clients to achieve their health and fitness
			goals and to make exercise a part of their life forever. She works with
			beginning exercisers, those who have been exercising but not getting
			the results they want, or those that just need a boost in their
			program. 
			Her program employs a unique accountability system that utilizes
			behavioral tools and concrete state of the art motivational activity
			monitors that track calorie expenditure and heart rate. These tools
			serve as 24/7 “personal trainers” that help her clients stay on track
			and motivates them to get going and keep going.
			Mary has had great success with busy professional and businesswomen who
			feel they have no place in their lives to “fit” exercise. Her program
			works very well for them because it is flexible and tailored to their
			lifestyle, schedule and level of fitness. Oftentimes busy women have
			stopped and started exercise programs over and over again and want to
			learn how to stay on a program for the rest of their lives. She gives
			them the tools, education and support to do just that. 
			The majority of Mary’s clients are long distance so don’t let the fact
			that she doesn’t live next door get in the way! Every NABBW member who
			inquires will receive a complimentary consultation, a free “Fitness
			Tips Booklet” and 10% off the total price of packages Mary offers. 
MEMBERSHIP NEWS FOR AUGUST:
REFER A FRIEND for NABBW MEMBERSHIP and receive a FREE copy of the BABY BOOMER’S ALMANAC, by Tim Brolus
			I continue to witness women encouraging women in our Virtual Village
			every day at http://www.boomerwomenspeak.com/forums/ ubbthreads.php.
			Won’t you join us? The sixty-plus forums connect, encourage and support
			baby boomer women at all stages of life! 
			We have created a user-friendly version of member benefits on the
			Members Only page at www.nabbw.com. Check it out. Email me at
			dots@boomerwomenspeak.com if you've forgotten your password.
			ADDED BENEFITS
			Look for these added benefits on the Members Only page at www.nabbw.com.
			ARTICLES ACCEPTED FROM MEMBERS
			Beginning August 15th we will accept one article a month from our
			members for inclusion at www.nabbw.com.These articles will be added to
			our site, but will not be included in our newsletters. Newsletter
			articles will continue to be written by NABBW Associates only. This is
			an added benefit that we chose to consider due to the number of
			requests we’ve had from our members. Please read the guidelines below
			and be certain to follow them.
-  All articles should be submitted as WORD
 attachments with11⁄2 line spacing and must include a TITLE. Do not put
 the article in the body of the email.
- The subject line of the email should contain NABBW
 Article Submission. Articles that do not include this will not be
 accepted.
- Please include your complete name, or pen name, a
 2-3 sentence bio, a web address, if any, and email. Your email address
 will not be visible unless you request it to be shown. Please do not
 send pictures.
- Word count is limited to 1000 words.
- All articles should be educational.
- All subject matter or topics should be in tune with
 the boomer women issues of today. Absolutely NO profanity, racial
 slurs, degrading, or politically-based work will be accepted.
- Book excerpts are not acceptable.
- ONE article per month may be submitted.
- Notification of acceptance will be sent within one month if your article has been chosen.
- We WILL NOT provide editing for your work. Please
 send your best and final edit only. Articles that need editing will not
 be published.
- Writers retain all rights to their work and can submit simultaneously to other sources.
- Send all articles to: dots@boomerwomenspeak.com
 Please resubmit if you have sent articles in the past.
			Want to send flowers to a friend, or popcorn to a family or business?
			NABBW is now offering member discounts at www.1800flowers.com and
			www.thepopcornfactory.com 
			Lorraine Calhoun
			
			http://www.Act2Consulting.com
			Lorraine is offering a free e-book, 7 Steps To Go From Frazzled to
			Fabulous: The Secret Life of the Serene Baby Boomer Women for NABBW
			members. 
Cathy Taylor
			www.everythingmenopause.com
			It's a shame for you to suffer through menopause symptoms when you
			really don't have to. Her eBook took more than 1,000 hours of research,
			writing and editing – but now YOU can benefit tremendously from it.
			Discover the natural, secret solutions to living comfortably during
			your mid-life transition. Cathy offers 20% off her ebook to all NABBW
			members. 
FEATURED ASSOCIATE
Natalie Caine
			SEPARATION AND GUIDANCE FOR PARENTS WHEN DAUGHTERS AND SONS LEAVE HOME FOR COLLEGE
			http://www.emptynestsupport.com
			
			Looking around the summer corner, towards the college launch, I imagine
			your hearts are beating faster and your hands want to grab your little
			ones who are no longer little.
			Separation is change. Change is scary even when it is for a joyous
			ride. You have done a good job raising your children or they wouldn’t
			be leaving. Everyone is feeling the build up towards their new life and
			new roles. Excitement and anxiety partner each other during this change.
What can you do?
			1.    Breathe. I know that sounds trite, but research
			says it is the best way to handle chaos, fears, and loss. Stick out
			your stomach and breathe no matter where you are – 7 counts. No one is
			watching you, so let it out.
			2.    Find someone to listen to you. Journal in the
			morning or evening to connect with your feelings. Not to simply dump
			but to see all sides of your thoughts and feelings. What’s a new way to
			look at your thoughts, ex. I just don’t know what I will do without her
			here – I will cry and discover what I need now. First let your feelings
			and thoughts come on the paper. Go back and add a different perception.
			3.    Plan something for you after you say goodbye and
			come home to that vacant room – a massage, a walk with a friend, a meal
			out, flowers for your room and a candle , a good book to get lost in,
			videos. Plan something ahead. It won’t take away missing them but it
			will give you a little comfort. Ok, you can have that popcorn in bed!
			
			4.    Your daughter or son will be learning time
			management, making new friends, navigating the campus and classes .You
			want them to take the leap with out you checking in on them. They are
			dealing with their physical, emotional, academic, and social needs. You
			too will be caring for yourself. It is ok to remind yourself they will
			make mistakes. Scraped knees ,heal. when they call home lonely or angry
			or sad. You are the listener and then the mentor who says, I am so
			sorry you had a bad day. What do you think you can do? Truth is, most
			kids call, vent, and then go out. You are stuck with the worry and
			sleepless night. If they really are injured or sick, you will hear
			about it. Take care of you.
			5.    No matter if you have busy lives or not, it is
			normal to miss your precious one. Take baby steps to re-envision your
			life and begin the journey of discovering what you want and need. Write
			your dream list of to do’s.
6. Most families make changes but not quickly. Patience and gentleness.
			7.    Key questions to talk about or write: Where am I
			in my life? What do I need? Where am I headed? Where are my partner and
			I headed?
			AN IDEA FOR YOU: Tuck love notes, hopes, pride, memories in your
			daughter or son’s suitcases that they will find under their t-shirts,
			towels, etc. A surprise in the suitcase!
			Ask them if they want help in choosing photos to take with them.
			
Begin a journal for you. Go and buy one and begin. She, He, leaves tomorrow and I –
			Talk to your partner about what you can do when you get home and the
			house is silent – brainstorm ideas. My friend and her partner went to a
			hotel downtown in their home. Another went to a B and B in the college
			town to let go and be cared for with clean sheets and good food and
			walks outside. Plan something.
			You are headed on a joyous and challenging adventure of new roles as
			parents. Freedom you never imagined gives you fulfillment and happiness
			in time. One single woman listed her home for house exchanges and has
			traveled without a dip in the piggy bank. A dad took a back packing
			trip to Alaska organized from the store REI.
			
			Call me to come and speak to your groups at a discounted rate:
			Girlfriends Night Out; Book Club, Hiking Group, Church Groups, Knitting
			Circle, etc.
			Let me know what you need and how I can support your changes.
			
			Send in your stories to share with others and get support from the comments they write you.
			Email: natalie@emptynestsupport.com
			Ask me if there is a group in your area or how to start one for you.
			
FEATURED MEMBER
			Marcia Merrill
			
			http://www.ecareercorner.com
			
			Marcia is known as the Transition Chick. I am a career & life
			transitions coach with over 18 years of experience helping people who
			are in exactly your position. The focus of my professional life has
			been helping people in various states of change – be it a new job, a
			promotion, retirement planning, or just moving onto or planning for the
			"next phase" in your life, I can help take you to the next level!
			As a Certified Career Management Coach & a Certified Job &
			Career Transitions Coach my goal is to help you design and implement
			strategies to get you to a point in your life where you are confident,
			fulfilled & ready to seize & live your life – rather than
			wander through it.
			Marica is an author in a compilation of women writers on
			personal/professional/spiritual development-"Inspiration to
			Realization", Vol. 3 (Aug. 2006). My chapter is on The Transition Cycle
			& Navigating it Successfully! My specialty is helping midlife women
			in Life/Career Transitions turn midlife into the RIGHT Life! 25%
			special discount on all my coaching services for all NABBW members.
			Visit me & sign up to get my FREE e-book on "5 Secrets to
			Career/Life Triumphs!"
			
			NABBW JULY TELESEMINAR
			Jennifer Kalita
			The Entrepreneurial Boomer Woman: How to Start & Stay in Business
			Please see your Member Benefit page if you missed the teleseminar. There is a link so you can visit at your convenience.
			
NABBW AUGUST TELESEMINAR
Dr. Karen Stephen
			Mental and Emotional Health In Midlife Years
			Tuesday, August 22, 2006
			7:00pm EST
			
			Dr. Karen Stephen promises to give you basic information and simple
			recommendations regarding your mental and emotional health in your
			midlife years.
			Karen has devoted her professional life to taking the psychobabble out
			of psychotherapy. Choosing straight talk over straight jackets, she has
			brought hope and healing to thousands of clients over her thirty-seven
			year career as a licensed clinical psychologist. For the past 15 years
			she has been with the nation’s largest HMO, specializing in women’s
			midlife issues and the treatment of personality disorders. On her
			fun-filled website, Doctor Flamingo Online, Karen provides midlife
			women everywhere with support and the proper tools to accommodate
			health changes, deal with addicted children, rear grandchildren, battle
			codependency, embrace living alone, and overcome life-long emotional
			struggles. 
			Karen, who is also the Mental Health Advisor for NABBW, will talk about
			the top four reasons why women in their midlife years seek
			psychological help. She will give you information about when and where
			to seek professional help for the mental and emotional problems in your
			own lives or in the lives of family members. She will present five
			simple guidelines to increase your emotional well being regardless of
			the stressors in your life.
			
BOOMER REVIEWS
			We are happy to review member’s books, products and services. This is a
			service that is FREE of CHARGE to NABBW members. Please email us if you
			are interested in seeing a review of your book, product, or service.
			Bertha-size Your Life
			Jane Carroll
			Review by Georgia Richardson, Queen Jaw Jaw
			
			If I used one word to describe this book it would be, F-U-N. But then
			again, there’s another; “revelations.” And yet another; “perspective.”
			My list goes on and on. I enjoyed this read so much that I finished in
			two days. 
			Jane Carroll opens her story with the “Empty Nest” blues as her last
			child leaves via the altar, but she quickly turns the theme around into
			a wonderful adventure of enlightenment, encouragement, and self-love.
			One that helps the reader in sorting out the past, the present, and the
			next fifty years. She shows us how to really live. That’s life – with a
			capital “L.” 
			As the story begins, she’s jogging in the park and meets a woman named
			Bertha. After friendly exchanges, the two decide the role of room-mates
			fits them well. As soon as Bertha moves in, life changes and might I
			say, all for the better. It truly gives new meaning to the phrase,
			“When the student is ready, – ” Bertha’s lifestyle is all about taking
			time to smell the roses, literally on some days. She’s offers how life
			is meant to be embraced, cherish, lived in the “now”, and how drifting
			is not an option. There’s no room for “woe is me” in this book.
			
			Each day (and Chapter) begins with a new adventure, and a flashy new
			wardrobe, I might add, by the simple question being asked, “Bertha,
			what are you doing?” I quickly learned that once these lines were read,
			Bertha would emerge; sometimes climbing on her soapbox and delivering
			“aha” moments, and other times using life-altering analogies coated
			with wisdom that couldn’t be denied, no matter how far one’s head is
			buried in the sand. 
			While each Bertha-sized adventure was fun, this book gives the reader
			much more than chuckles. In the end, you fully understand. It’s like
			Bertha says, nothing is more important than feeling good about me, and
			it’s okay to ask for help when you need it. Bertha helps you to connect
			with your inner child AND spirit, once again. She teaches us that
			letting go of some impossible situations, or people, is okay, and that
			fitting everyone into your life is not mandatory. Even complete
			acceptance of some situations can be a form of letting go. Another
			lesson; it’s okay to distance yourself from concerns to gain a better
			perspective, even if this involves taking a day off work, wearing a
			silly hat and hitting the beach. Entitlement; it’s a good thing.
			Just who is this Bertha? She’s you, me, and every other woman you’ve
			known who needs to “listen” to her own voice and make the world be
			quiet.
			
Her mantra? Be as nice to yourself as you are to others.
In my opinion, a great place to start would be by reading, Bertha-size Your Life!
			Young at Heart (Boomer Humor) a collection of Cascade Greeting Cards
			Tracy Taravade
			
			www.cascadegreetings.com
			Reviewed by Georgia Richardson, Queen Jaw Jaw
			
			How many times have you visited the card store to find that special
			“girlfriend” card? Maybe you needed to tell her to hang in there, or
			Bon Voyage, or you simply wanted to say, “I’m glad we’re friends.” You
			read and you wait for just the right card to speak to you. Nothing. You
			read more, nada. As you pull out one after the other they all fall into
			three categories. Sappy, too happy/goofy, or they’re insulting. Because
			you need a card, you end up taking the lesser of the three evils. 
			Not any more. Want simple cards that help to say what’s in a Boomer’s
			heart? One that says “I heard you honey, and I’m there for you.” Or
			maybe one that says, “We boomers don’t have wrinkles, we have laugh
			lines!” Cards that help you express to your best friend that we’re
			going to laugh at life and make it! Finally someone has come along and
			given us a choice. 
			Tracy Taravade surveyed what was out there in the greeting card line
			and said, “I can do better.” Guess what? She did. At Cascade Greetings,
			her line of cards is called “Young at Heart” and each one speaks
			directly to Boomer women everywhere. They are uplifting, energetic, and
			just plain fun. You won’t find anything depressing with the Young at
			Heart collection. Just a celebration of life. Cards that show baby
			boomer women living life to the fullest, enjoying their journey, and
			embracing every step of the way.
			
Now we need a card to tell Tracy – thank you for listening!
MEMBER COLUMNS
			What is CCRC?
			By Jan Cullinane
			If you’re looking to make only one move that will provide for whatever
			care needs may develop, a CCRC (Continuing Care Retirement Community)
			may fit the bill. A CCRC offers a continuum of care and allows you to
			“age in place” – you can transition from independent living to assisted
			living to nursing care (some accommodate Alzheimer’s residents), all
			within the same facility or on the same “campus.” A variety of housing
			options is usually available, and there is often a community dining
			area. If your goal is to remain in the same geographic area, the
			sizable number of these facilities throughout the country may enable
			you to stay close to your present location, yet receive the help you
			need. Or, if you decide to relocate, you’ll have the peace of mind of
			knowing you won’t have to move again.
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/jancullinane.html
Menopause and Irritability – All You Need to Know
By Cathy Taylor
			Many women in the stages of pre- menopause and menopause feel depressed
			and irritable. Some researchers believe that the decrease in estrogen
			triggers changes in the brain, causing depression. Others think that
			supplementary symptoms you are having, such as sleep problems, hot
			flashes, night sweats and fatigue are the causes of these feelings.
			Alternatively, it could be a blend of hormonal changes and symptoms.
			However, these symptoms can also be caused due to reasons unrelated to
			menopause, though menopause is the main cause of these symptoms in a
			woman. Mood changes and irritability may also be more common in women
			who have had difficulty with PMS.
			
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/cathytaylor.html
How to Make – And Keep – Your Memories
By Barbara Friesner
			As a Generational Coach and because of the my mother’s dementia, I’m
			often asked by people who are concerned about their “intellectual
			pauses” if there’s anything they can do to remember more, longer, and
			make their memories easier to access.
			
			Please know that I’m not a “brain specialist”. Nothing written here
			should imply a diagnosis or a way to prevent Alzheimers or any of the
			dozen or so other types of dementia. However, based on information I’ve
			learned through research, personal observation and experience, I say
			Yes!
			
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/barbarafriesner.html
5 Free Things You Can Do to Jump Start Your PR Today
By Jennifer Kalita
			You’re a woman in business which, by definition, means you’re one
			clever time and resource manager. You can balance the books, walk 3
			miles a day, and volunteer at the blood bank in a single bound. And all
			while running a business. 
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/jenniferkalita.html
Zen Organizer Party Planning Diary
By Regina Leeds
			Recently a dear friend gifted me with a birthday party. While it was a
			great success, some things did not go as she planned. Doesn’t that
			always happen when we have folks over? Her response, however, has been
			to declare that she is never going to entertain again. My suggestion is
			that we break the experience down and examine what elements were
			successful and which could have been handled differently for a better
			outcome. In the case of entertaining, a better outcome is one where the
			hostess is so relaxed she’s enjoying her own party.
			
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/reginaleeds.html
No Time Like The Present
By Prill Boyle
			When we pursue a dream, our spirits wake up. But as our hearts begin to
			soar and we head off to whatever destination we've chosen, it’s vital
			to remember that what’s most important in our lives is not in the
			future. It’s here and now. Jim McKennan knows this all too well. On
			June 1st he was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor—a complete
			surprise for an active and seemingly healthy man who is the father of
			four school-age children. The odds are not in his favor. But as dire as
			his situation is, much good has already come from it. His family and
			friends have rallied around him. “Team Jim,” they’ve dubbed themselves.
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/ prillboyle.html
What Do I Want to Be When I Grow Up?
By Natalie Caine
			I am an empty nester who loves being a mom. I don’t love my career
			anymore, and now I have to figure out “What do I want to be when I grow
			up? Coping with the quiet house and no fussing over meals, and no more
			soccer games is a big hole for me. That is just part of the darkness. I
			was on committees at her school and did morning car pool when she was
			younger.
			
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/nataliecaine.html
Commercial Leasing From the Landlord’s Perspective
By Patricia McHugh Lambert
			The terms of the lease will bind the parties for a considerable period
			of time and it is important, therefore, to carefully draft the lease up
			front. Also, often times, when the lease term is coming to an end and
			the parties want to negotiate an extension of the lease term, landlords
			are tempted to just amend the lease time and time again to extend the
			term. Certainly that is the quickest method to keep the lease going,
			but after a series of amendments, the underlying (original lease) may
			be 10 years or older. It may well be time to engage counsel, reevaluate
			the lease, and be sure it meets current-day standards and addresses
			issues that simply were not thought of those 10 years ago. 
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/ patlambert.html
It's Not About Time
By Nan S. Russell
			With mounting to-do lists, big projects with short delivery dates,
			consuming workloads, growing obligations and festering unfinished
			tasks, it's no wonder in this what- have- you- done- for- me- today world we
			often feel time deprived. Work-life flows to home-life, balance becomes
			imbalance, and goals and dreams get relegated to a closet shelf. If
			this sounds familiar, you're not alone. In a recent "Winning at
			Working" reader survey, the most commonly articulated work problem was
			related to time. Overwhelmed. Overworked. Overstressed. Too much to do
			and too little time to do it.
Continue reading at this link: https://nabbw.com/columns/ nanrussell.html
Wail On, Dear Locusts
By Julie Clark Robinson
			“Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass on a summer
			day listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float
			across the sky, is hardly a waste of time.” –John Lubbock
			To normal people, a locust’s cry probably goes unnoticed. It doesn’t
			consistently chat like the cricket does – a regular rhythm of chirp,
			chirp, chirp. It doesn’t entertain with a sporadic song like a bird
			does. To a normal person, a locust is that big bug that sheds its skin
			and freaks you out if you cross its abandoned path.
			
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/ julierobinson.html
That's Not My Job
By Georgia Richardson
			For over twenty years, I worked in a job that held a service contract
			with the Government. In other words, when they said, “Jump” we
			responded with, “How high?” The thought never entered anyone’s mind to
			say, “That’s not my job.” I also believe that for the most part, these
			same work ethics were the norm across the board in just about any
			store, restaurant, or other places of business during those years.
			
Continue reading at this link: https://nabbw.com/columns/ georgiarichardson.html
Rescue Me
By Donna Shepherd
			“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will
			fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they
			comfort me.” – Psalm 23:4 (NIV)
			As a little girl, I had nightmares, vivid dreams so disturbing I can
			remember them to this day. On more than one occasion, I’d climb out of
			bed, and sleepwalk and talk trying my best to rid myself of the images
			playing in my head. My mother would hear me bumping and stumbling
			around in my room and she’d come to my rescue. Usually when she turned
			on the light, I’d wake up. But a couple of times, I didn’t believe she
			really stood there. I didn’t recognize her. Only her persistent voice
			saying, “Donna, it’s me. I’m right here” awakened me and gave me
			comfort.
			
Continue reading at this link: https://nabbw.com/columns/donnashepherd.html
Making the Most of "Mistakes"
By Judith Sherven, Ph.D. & James Sniechowski, Ph.D.
			It's so easy to feel embarrassed and humiliated by the dumb stuff we
			all do. You've no doubt tried to hide the evidence that would expose
			you. And every one of us has lied to cover up our mishaps. But what
			about turning moments that might be thought of as mistakes into part of
			your intimate family history?
			
Continue reading at this link: https://nabbw.com/columns/judithsherven.html
Menopause: The Reality
By Karen Baar
			We all have to grapple with menopause, whether we had children at 28,
			at 40, or not at all, whether we worked or stayed at home, whether
			we’re straight or gay. No matter. We all go through it. Still, the first symptoms of perimenopause may come as a shock, no
			matter how primed we are to expect them. (A note on terminology: Hot
			flashes and other symptoms are actually part of perimenopause, or the
			period leading up to menopause; menopause is defined as the cessation
			of menstruation.)
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/karenbaar.html
Handy Tips to Help You Find More Time
By Suzanne Falter Barnes
			Got time to read a quick essay about how to find more time? Desperately need more time but you're not sure where to find it?
			First take a nice deep breath, then settle back into your chair and
			read. I'm here to share some really helpful info with you that has
			radically altered how I use my time. Now I not only have more time, I'm
			more relaxed and when I am working, I'm a lot more focused.
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/suzannefalter.html
Warmest greetings to our fellow Baby Boomer Women!
By Janet Horn
			Or should we say, our HOTTEST greetings, given the temperatures this
			summer?! (Our very first piece of advice: do not go anywhere this
			summer without a bottle of water. Dehydration can sneak up on you very
			quickly). We wanted to take the opportunity in our first column for this
			newsletter to introduce ourselves, tell you how excited we are to be
			here, and let you in on our philosophies for maintaining good health
			and achieving longevity in this wonderful, though challenging, time of
			our lives.
			
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/hornmiller.html
Midlife for Women – A Play in Three Acts – Act II
By Karen Stephen
			ACT II – MASTERING THE MALADIES The MALADIES are the FIVE most common
			conditions that make overcoming the CRUMMIES (see my June 2006 NABBW
			column) more difficult. They are MALTREATMENT, MALFUNCTION, MALIGNANCY,
			MALPRACTICE, and MALARKEY. You probably have one or more in your life
			that complicate getting and staying healthy.
			
Continue reading at this link: http://www.nabbw.com/columns/karenstephen.html
MEMBER NEWS
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			Need a lift? A laugh? A chuck or two? Then sign up for Queen Jaw Jaw's
			monthly newsletter, ALL THINGS ROYAL at http:// www.queenjawjaw.com and
			let the laughs begin. WARNING: Do not drink liquids while reading this
			newsletter!
			
Meredith Laskow
			Meredith Karen Laskow is showcased in a one-woman jewelry and art show
			at the Placentia (California) Library, on display through the end of
			August. See her jewelry and art at www.meredithbead.com She also was
			recently featured in one of the major local newspapers for her poetry. 
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			WANTED: I'm looking to interview midlife/boomer women who've exprienced
			a transition-change in living situation,marital status, career change,
			retirement, starting a business…Please contact fellow NABBW member,
			Marcia Merrill, the Transition Chick at marcia@ecareercorner.com or
			410-467-0811. You get a FREE recording of our interview- use on your
			web site – as a sample to send to the media – Names can be changed to
			protect the innocent!
			
Judith Sherven
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			NABBW Relationship Expert and best-selling author Judith Sherven, PhD
			invites you, as a NABBW member, to take advantage of the free
			relationship tips she created with her husband and co-author Jim
			Sniechowski, PhD. Discover how to make the ordinary moments
			extraordinary. Visit our web site shown above.
			
Laurel Kennedy
			Would you like to be interviewed for a book about Baby Boomer
			caregivers? Daughter Trap is an upcoming book that will champion the
			cause of Baby Boomer women juggling work, career, spouse, child and
			elder care commitments. The author needs to interview Boomer women in
			this situation to make the book come alive. The book will incorporate
			quotes from women coping with these conflicting imperatives, and
			propose ways business, government agencies, local communities and
			neighbors can ease the burden. All interviews will be confidential, and
			all quotes will be anonymous, due to the sensitive nature of the
			material. If you’re interested in participating, please contact Laurel
			Kennedy at 1-888-879-0123 or email lkennedy@agelessons.com
			
Pam Blair
			The Next Fifty Years is a guide for women at midlife and beyond, a
			journal and a study guide all rolled into one. This treasure chest of
			wisdom will validate your life experience while you laugh, cry and know
			that you are not alone. While encouraging you to re-envision your life
			for the road ahead, this book hastens the process with
			thought-provoking questions and space for your responses. Complete
			empowerment for women."
			
Raven West (pen name) Robin Cohen Westmiller
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			Star Publish (http://starpublish.com) announces the July 2006 release
			of Blood Tastes Lousy With Scotch by Robin Cohen Westmiller. Blood
			Tastes Lousy With Scotch is available in both paperback and e-book
			versions, and can be purchased at your local bookstore and at online
			bookstores such as Amazon.com, BN.com, and others.
			
			Robin Cohen Westmiller is quoted as saying, “This is the true account
			of the events that lead to the near destruction of our family at the
			hands of my cousins, a court appointed guardian, and one of the most
			powerful Elder Law attorneys in South Florida. It is a story of
			determination, fortitude and of the victory, which inspired the
			creation of the National Association To Stop Guardian Abuse. They say
			blood is thicker than water, but you can’t bathe in it, you can’t cook
			with it, and blood tastes lousy with scotch.”
			A “mid-life crisis” in 2003 led her to enter the Southern California
			Institute of Law, a decision, which later turned out to be fortuitous
			in her fight to rescue her father from the clutches of a Florida court
			appointed guardian.
			
			Robin is the President and founder of the National
			Association to Stop Guardian Abuse and a member of the Author’s Guild,
			Ventura County Bar Association, and National Academy of Elder Law
			Attorneys.
			Guardian abuse is the new crime of the 21st century. The National
			Association to Stop Guardian Abuse was created to help victims and
			their families obtain justice in an seemingly unjust political and
			judicial court system.
			
Ginny Robertson
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			What if – you could be a published author, with your book in the hands
			of thousands of people in less than 4 months? Live Your Life On Purpose
			and Love Your Life Publishing are collaborating on a book titled The
			Spirit of Women Entrepreneurs – A Guidebook to Pursuing Your Dreams.
			Interested? Visit our web site shown above.
			
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Barbara Hollace
			The Wise Women Workshop Series will kick off its quarterly series with
			Wise Women Light the World. If you are interested in transforming your
			life, then this is the place to be. For more information and
			registration visit our website shown above. Hope to see you in Spokane,
			Washington on August 25th.
			
THANK YOU
Thank you to the following for taking a part in sharing information about NABBW and BWS:
			Thanks to Rick Montgomery for the interview and mention of NABBW and
			BWS in the Kansas City Star. Rick’s article, Warning: Watch out for
			Boomers: The future holds promises and pitfalls as influential
			generation begins to turn 60 was one of the most informative articles
			I’ve read about boomers. You can read it at this link:
			http://www.kansascity.com/mld/kansascity/15049020.htm
			Thanks to the Seattle Times for publishing the article Boomers will
			change America again – by retiring. You can read it at this link:
			http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/
			2003131824_boomers17.html
			Thanks to American News for publishing Warning: Watch out for boomers:
			Arguments rage about beneficial, negative impact as generation ages, by
			Rick Montgomery. The article includes quotes from me. You can read it
			at this link: http:// www.aberdeennews.com/mld/aberdeennews/news/local/
			15055543.htm
			Thanks to www.workingsenior.com for posting my article about boomers
			turning 60. You can read it at this link:
			http://workingsenior.com/cm/About_NAWS/
			Hot_Topic_Articles/Boomers_turn_60.html
			Thanks to Mary Clare Hunt at In Women We Trust for the fun interview
			which can be read at this link: http://inwomenwetrust.typepad.com/
			in_women_we_trust/ interviews_with_leaders_of_womens_groups/index.html 
www.ecareercorner.com Thanks to Marcia Merrill for the continued mentions of BWS and NABBW in all of her newsletters.
www.fiftysomethingwomen.com Thanks for listing NABBW on your site.
RECENT READS
			While looking at the growing stack of books under my desk, I realized
			it’s been some time since I shared what I’ve been reading lately. I
			hope you’ll consider researching them at Amazon for your next read.
			
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