• Chivalry is not dead. Despite being equals, women still appreciate men who hold the door, pull out the chair, and treat them with respect.
  • Sex starts long before bed. A hug by the sink, a kiss on the neck on the way to work, holding hands at the movies, and other affectionate touching can get a woman more in the mood. Even helping around the house so she can have some downtime is foreplay for many!
  • Make your woman feel desirable. You may have seen her naked a thousand times before, but each time is a privilege and an opportunity to show her that she still turns you on.
  • A slow hand is a turn-on. An occasional firecracker quickie is fine, but most women like a slow buildup to a big bonfire.
  • Learn what your lover likes, not just what you think she likes .Ask, learn, and practice.
  • Pillow talk is sexy. Few things turn a woman on more than hearing her lover open up about something intimate. A little conversation afterward is comforting, too. Rolling over and going right to sleep is almost always a bummer.
  • Clean is sexy! If you work in the oil fields all day, please take a shower before bed.
  • Dr. Dorree is the founder and Editor-In Chief of FiftyandFurthermore.com, a lifestyle website that is known for offering sexy, savvy and sage advice for grownups over 50. She is also a practicing psychologist and life coach in Washington, D.C. and Florida with over 4 decades of experience.