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Tips for Getting Eldercare – And Your Life – Under Control

Because eldercare
is often unexpected, intermittent (at least initially), and always
unpredictable, few of us realize the time and toll it\’s taking
on us personally in terms of money, relationships, and peace of
mind – to mention nothing of our sanity! It\’s also difficult
to accurately predict the true length of our commitment. In fact,
according to the 1999 MetLife Mature Market Institute Study, a majority
of those anticipating 1 to 2 years of caregiving actually spent
4 or more years providing care. Add to that all the complicated
bureaucratic and legal restrictions, such as HIPAA, Medicare, insurance
plan changes, and the paperwork that goes with it, it\’s not
surprising we often find ourselves overwhelmed, exhausted, and just
trying to cope.

My Generational
Coaching clients often say to me “I have too much stuff going
on – I don\’t have time to get organized!” However,
when they start tracking the time they spend looking for and/or
duplicating information, they are shocked at how much time and energy
they\’re wasting – especially those who are a long-distance
caregiver and/or sharing caregiving responsibilities with others.

Tip
#1 – SORT

  • Label the
    files however makes sense to you. For example: legal, medical,
    insurance, home, car, Social Security/Medicare, bank, etc.
  • Sort by current
    year, past year, and all previous years.
  • Toss obvious
    garbage like envelopes, but don\’t worry about serious purging
    in this initial sort.

Starting
with the current year, sort chronologically. Eventually you
may want to put everything into chronological order, but that
can wait.

  • Whether you
    use file jackets, color-coded files, or shoe boxes, the important
    thing to remember is that it doesn\’t have to be elaborate.
    Nor do you have to go for perfection. Try as I will to put everything
    into the right file immediately, I still have one labeled “Mom\’s
    Stuff To Be Filed” that I sort about once a month.
  • Tip
    #2 – COMPILE

    Make a list
    of important providers (doctors, lawyer, accountant, stockbroker,
    etc.), accounts (insurance, bank, investment, etc.), and vital
    documents (Living Will, Health Care Proxy, Power of Attorney,
    original birth/death certificates, marriage license, Will, etc.)
    You can use a sheet of paper or, for a complimentary copy of the
    AgeWiseLiving Legal & Financial Organizer which includes a
    list of vital documents, go to http://www.agewiseliving.com/newsletters.htm.

  • If you\’re
    working with your aging loved one, this would be a good time to
    talk about the status of their Living Will, Health Care Proxy,
    etc.
  • Tip
    #3 – COPY
  • Medical
    History To keep the medical information up-to-date, ask to
    receive all test results, etc. in writing “for the file”.

  • Medical Insurance
    Information
  • Bring the
    file to every doctor\’s appointment.
  • With all of
    this, remember . . . simple is best and the time you invest now
    will save you enormously in time, money, relationships, and peace
    of mind in the future.
  • Barbara E. Friesner Generational Coach

    Barbara Friesner is the country's leading Generational Coach and an expert on issues affecting Seniors and their families. She has been interviewed for Advising Boomers magazine, featured on NY1 TV's Focus on Seniors and Coping with Caregiving on wsRadio. She has also been quoted in newspapers and magazines across the country and her articles have been published in the CAPSule, the Children of Aging Parent's newsletter.

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