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50 Shades of Grand By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality “He follows with two sharp thrusts, and he freezes, pouring himself into me as he finds his release”… S…50 Shades of Grand …50 Shades of Grand By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality “He follows with two sharp thrusts, and he freezes, pouring himself into me as he finds his release”… Shocked? Irritated? Excited? This quote is from the Book, “50 Shades of Grey” by E.L. James, which gives us explicit erotic scenes and a look into a world full of racy sexual fetishes. Whereas Harlequin novels once grabbed the hearts of so many women reading in private, this New York Times Bestseller now grabs the attention of women of all ages who, thanks to e-readers and a simple cover, are …
Dr. Dorree Lynn
July 29, 2012
Day Trips & Hotel Sex By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Sometimes it seems like there’s nothing better than taking a trip with that special someone, spending …Day Trips & Hotel Se…Day Trips & Hotel Sex By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Sometimes it seems like there’s nothing better than taking a trip with that special someone, spending the day seeing the sights and finishing the night with some nice, no holds barred hotel sex. Often, our daily lives get the best of us. We give our all at the office and then we’re give out by the time we get home. Sometimes we have to remove ourselves from the mundane day-to-day, get out of town for a bit, and just spend some quality time with someone we care about. The benefits of hotel sex …
Dr. Dorree Lynn
June 6, 2012
WHY CAN\'T YOU HEAR ME? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality We all know the overused generalization that Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, but sometimes when…WHY CAN\'T YOU HEAR …WHY CAN\'T YOU HEAR ME? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality We all know the overused generalization that Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, but sometimes when we communicate with our partner it seems as though we\'re millions of miles away from one another, trying to have a conversation while actually standing on Mars and Venus. Couples often get into communication conflicts without even knowing whether they are differing about style or content. As with sex, many men prefer to cut right to the chase, while women may tend to talk on and on and on… …
Dr. Dorree Lynn
April 25, 2012
Looking for Love in All the Right Places By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Back in the dating scene and feeling a bit outnumbered and overwhelmed? RELAX! Step …Looking for Love in …Looking for Love in All the Right Places By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Back in the dating scene and feeling a bit outnumbered and overwhelmed? RELAX! Step 1: Take deep breaths. This isn\'t going to be as horrible of an experience as you think. This is an exciting adventure! You are about to learn new things about yourself as you start a new life and make new friends, and one of the best ways to start is to start becoming in things that interest you. Don\'t just go to some place that you think might have that dreamy person you\'re looking for, …
Dr. Dorree Lynn
November 18, 2011
Mirror Mirror, on the Wall, Can I Still Be Sexy at All? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Ever hear the expression "inside every older lady is a younger lady wond…Mirror Mirror, on th…Mirror Mirror, on the Wall, Can I Still Be Sexy at All? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Ever hear the expression "inside every older lady is a younger lady wondering what happened?" Guess what? You still are that younger lady, you just evolved to be more of yourself and along the way your body evolved, too. Each season of life is beautiful in its own way. In our youth-focused culture, concerns about body image are a major libido killer after 50, especially for women (although it certainly impacts men, too). If you don\'t have a partner, you may wonder…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
July 7, 2011
Who Says Younger is Sexier? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Just about everyone, that’s who! Gazillions of messages every day try to convince us that y…Who Says Younger is …Who Says Younger is Sexier? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Just about everyone, that’s who! Gazillions of messages every day try to convince us that young—and only young—is sexy. Sure, the media throws us a politically correct nod, showing attractive seniors supposedly shining our way through our golden years, even if a bit battered and bent. But those token gestures can hardly compete with all the TV, movies, radio, popular music, magazines, and even wrappers on gum and panty hose—all full of images of young, sexy people whom we ar…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
June 10, 2011
Can You Hear Me Now? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Ladies, if you sometimes think that your man seems deaf, dumb, and blind, that may actually be partially …Can You Hear Me Now?…Can You Hear Me Now? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Ladies, if you sometimes think that your man seems deaf, dumb, and blind, that may actually be partially true. At least the deaf part is pretty common. Many men as they age tend to lose some of their hearing at the higher range where a woman’s voice may mostly reside. If your guy seems to be missing some of what you’ve been saying lately, there’s a good chance he might benefit from a hearing test. Partial hearing loss is far more common than most people realize. Countless arguments an…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
May 10, 2011
What\'s Your Sex Style? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Individuals and couples often develop their own sex styles that partially reflect t…What\'s Your Sex Sty…What\'s Your Sex Style? By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Expert on Boomer Women Sexuality Individuals and couples often develop their own sex styles that partially reflect their personalities and relationships. Every sex style is good if you both enjoy it and it leads to satisfying sex. Experimenting with another style once in a while can be exciting, too. Like food, variety really does add spice to life. Occasionally, a rigid sex style can block you from experiencing other kinds of lovemaking. Remember, no individual or couple is ever a…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
April 21, 2011
Building Your Communication Toolbox By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Boomer Women\'s Sexuality Expert Honest and effective communication takes tools, skills, and practice. Here are some ways to…Building Your Commun…Building Your Communication Toolbox By Dr. Dorree Lynn, Ph.D. NABBW's Boomer Women\'s Sexuality Expert Honest and effective communication takes tools, skills, and practice. Here are some ways to let the things you say nurture and grow your relationship. Use “I” statements. Take ownership of your feelings and thoughts. State your personal beliefs and feelings clearly and plainly. For example, instead of “You are so loud and annoying. Why do you keep bothering me?” you can say “I felt scared when you slammed the door. I would really like it if you could please be gentl…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
April 5, 2011
Good Food for Good Sex By Dr. Dorree Lynn NABBW's Boomer Women Sexuality Expert We are not going to tell you what foods to eat. We believe green is good. However, some who live long never tou…Good Food for Good S…Good Food for Good Sex By Dr. Dorree Lynn NABBW's Boomer Women Sexuality Expert We are not going to tell you what foods to eat. We believe green is good. However, some who live long never touch the stuff and there are plenty of cultures that eat, drink, and be merry and somehow stay healthy while they’re doing it. Their foods are mostly unprocessed and they tend to eat them in moderation. On the whole, America’s fast food diets seem to be health killers. But no one diet is right for everyone. Pay attention to what you do eat. …
Dr. Dorree Lynn
February 10, 2011
The Great Joy Ride By Dr. Dorree Lynn NABBW's Boomer Women Sexuality Expert Psssst. Wanna know a secret? Grownups, even some very grownup grownups, are playing . . . with sex toys! In fact, f…The Great Joy Ride …The Great Joy Ride By Dr. Dorree Lynn NABBW's Boomer Women Sexuality Expert Psssst. Wanna know a secret? Grownups, even some very grownup grownups, are playing . . . with sex toys! In fact, for couples and singles alike, there is a revolution occurring for people over 50. Adult sex toys, pornography, erotic literature, game playing, and other pleasure products and practices have become much more mainstream than ever before. This is good news for those in good health because sex toys can add fun and excitement to adult life. And it’s even better news for those in ill health bec…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
January 10, 2011
Plenty of Fish in the Sea: Seeking Love After 50. By Dr. Dorree Lynn NABBW's Boomer Women Sexuality Expert "Wouldn’t you love somebody to love?" Both Grace Slick and the late, great rocker…Plenty of Fish in th…Plenty of Fish in the Sea: Seeking Love After 50. By Dr. Dorree Lynn NABBW's Boomer Women Sexuality Expert "Wouldn’t you love somebody to love?" Both Grace Slick and the late, great rocker Janis Joplin certainly thought so. (Remember, Grace and the Jefferson Airplane sang "Somebody to Love?" And Joplin was famous for "I Need a Man to Love"...) In today’s fast-paced, ever-changing world, many people in their 50s, 60s, 70s (and beyond) suddenly find themselves unwillingly and often unexpectedly alone. Unless you want to give up shared sex entirely and live by yourself, the ti…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
December 14, 2010
Hot and Heavy By Dr. Dorree Lynn, NABBW's Boomer Women Sexuality Expert We all know it’s not healthy to be overweight, but it’s a myth that fat people, even very obese people, don’…Hot and Heavy By …Hot and Heavy By Dr. Dorree Lynn, NABBW's Boomer Women Sexuality Expert We all know it’s not healthy to be overweight, but it’s a myth that fat people, even very obese people, don’t make love. In the real world, sex is more likely to be impeded by anxiety than adiposity. Fear of rejection, fear of not meeting the partner’s expectations, and fear of not being able to perform are among the most common emotional barriers to intercourse. Overweight people suffer all these problems in spades. The body-image and social pressures they endure create numerous obstacles to sexu…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
November 29, 2010
Dear Dr. Dorree, I started seeing this really nice guy about four months ago, and I was really starting to like him, but I just found out he gave me gonorrhea! Can you believe it, at my age? I feel…Dear Dr. Dorree, …Dear Dr. Dorree, I started seeing this really nice guy about four months ago, and I was really starting to like him, but I just found out he gave me gonorrhea! Can you believe it, at my age? I feel like a fool. —Katrina, 69 Katrina, No one likes to hear they picked up a sexually transmitted disease (STD). We tend to think this sort of thing only happens to teenagers and prostitutes, but of course, that’s not true. STDs are passed around at every age— even to very nice people like you. That’s why we say everyone, even people who don’t have to worry about pregnancy, need to u…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
September 22, 2010
Chivalry is not dead. Despite being equals, women still appreciate men who hold the door, pull out the chair, and treat them with respect. Sex starts long before bed. A hug by the sink, a kiss …Chivalry is not dead…Chivalry is not dead. Despite being equals, women still appreciate men who hold the door, pull out the chair, and treat them with respect. Sex starts long before bed. A hug by the sink, a kiss on the neck on the way to work, holding hands at the movies, and other affectionate touching can get a woman more in the mood. Even helping around the house so she can have some downtime is foreplay for many! Make your woman feel desirable. You may have seen her naked a thousand times before, but each time is a privilege and an opportunity to show her that she still turns you on. A slow hand i…
Dr. Dorree Lynn
August 22, 2010
